Awareness, not pressure
Tend surfaces what could use attention with calm language. No red overdue badges, streaks, or guilt loops.
Life maintenance, remembered softly
The recurring parts of life, tended alone or together
Track the recurring care that keeps life steady: bed sheets, bills, check-ins, dinner plans, vet visits, oil changes. Tend keeps it calm, and shared Tends can appear for both people.
The stuff that drifts, remembered softly.
Household care, health, relationships, and life admin, gathered without overdue badges.
Built for real life
Track household care, health upkeep, relationships, pets, vehicles, and life admin in one quiet place.
Fast to scan
Open once or twice a week, see what drifted, mark something tended, and move on. Under a minute to add an item.
Care can belong to two people
For the recurring care that naturally involves someone else, Tend can now keep both people gently aware.
Tend with a friend
Add a friend's email to dinner, hangouts, or check-ins. The Tend appears for both of you.
Shared without pressure
Keep the same quiet rhythm and status language, whether a Tend belongs to you or is shared.
One tended moment is enough
Either person can mark a shared Tend as tended, so care counts when it happens.
Notice your tending rhythm
Check In gathers the patterns that are actually useful: what gets tended, who shares care with you, and which days tend to hold those moments.
What keeps getting tended
See which Tends have been cared for most often, without turning them into streaks.
Who care happens with
Shared Tends show who care most often happens with, useful for dinners, calls, and check-ins.
The days that carry care
Weekday patterns help you notice when tending naturally happens.